I joined a writers group this week. I only told my husband. I called myself a writer. I whispered it. I’ve joined many groups in my history. I’ve joined community groups, health groups, volunteer groups, groups for work, groups for play, groups to make me better, goups to socialize with, groups for groups. No big …
It’s a beautiful morning. The birds are singing. Baby Bunnies danced across the path of my walk. My dog pranced and smiled at my return. My husband made me coffee. What could be wrong? Something is. Remember the scene in The Fellowship of the Ring when they are in the mines and Gandolph reads a …
While doing research for a piece on body image I ran across this brief video. Two entrances, one headed “Beautiful” and the other headed “Average”. Women had to choose one or the other to get into a building. I was rapt as I watched it the first time, the second time and the third. …
One might not think that Julia Child was Midlife Badass Woman, but she was. As I was growing up she stood bigger than life on the PBS screen. She taught cooking dishes I didn’t understand and thought I would never eat. She seemed eccentric and ethereal both at the same time. Her 6’2″ frame filled …
This was the year that almost did me in. 2017 was characterized by challenges, failure, and misery. My husband and I, individually and together, have felt like Sisyphus — waging successful assaults on the problems of the month only to discover a new challenge that pushes us back down the hill, just to start over …
There is a new weight loss trend. It’s all over YouTube. There are volumes of instructionals everywhere. It’s called intermittent fasting. Here’s how is works: fast for 12 – 16 hours then eat wisely for the remainder of the day. The videos explain how to come out of your daily fast with – a nutrient …
It’s time to fess up– I didn’t stop writing because of boredom or writer’s block. I’ve had a lot to say. It’s been my depression. Everything I’ve wanted to say has been about how low I felt and how hard I’ve been fighting. If I’d had let myself, my blog my titles would have been: …
So here’s a huge surprise. Sex has begun to hurt. All my parts are in working order. I have lots of experience and a great imagination. There are no more surprise pregnancies to worry about. I have a partner that I’m in love with…and…sex hurts. Crap My mother kept this from me because she stopped …
Shhh. don’t tell my husband but I’m having an emotional affair. I love my phone. It’s always there giving me the information I ask for and it doesn’t ramble on and on. It connects me with loved ones and professionals. It leads me to where I want to go and doesn’t get lost. It …
One of the great aspects of growing older is my intolerance for things I don’t like. With the countdown clock ticking, I just don’t have the time waste on things I don’t like or are indifferent to. My wardrobe has been the biggest recipient of this. Simply put, I won’t wear anything I’m indifferent to …
